He was slathered in baby oil, having wild sex with a beautiful woman, and earning mountains of cash.
And if her famous rapper boyfriend wanted to meticulously choreograph and film the action to satisfy his private appetites, that was all part of the VIP service.
Diddy’s ‘freak off’ parties were just another lucrative porn gig for Anton Harden, a male escort and OnlyFans star known for being enormously well-endowed.
That was until the woman involved told the hip hop mogul’s sex trafficking trial she was coerced into taking part in their drug-fueled romps lasting up to six hours.
‘I thought I was just there for a good time with consenting adults,’ Harden, 31, told DailyMail.com in an exclusive interview.
‘If she was putting on an act, through coercion, that’s super f****d up and terrible. It almost feels like blood money now.’
Harden was one of multiple adult entertainers hired for sex parties variously referred to as ‘hotel nights’ or ‘freak offs’, involving oil, lube, ketamine, cocaine, and ecstasy.
Diddy – real name Sean Combs – would bully girlfriends into taking part in the marathon trysts as he recorded on video and masturbated, according to federal court testimony.
His alleged victims include a curvaceous former flame who has given evidence anonymously as ‘Jane’ to say she was blackmailed, plied with drugs, and tossed about like a ‘whore.’
She claims the billionaire Bad Boy Records founder threatened to cut off her $10,000-per-month rent payments if she refused to play along.
Diddy, 55, a triple Grammy winner and the once-untouchable kingpin of east coast rap music, denies racketeering and sex trafficking.
He claims his female accusers were all willing participants.
North Carolina-native Harden was familiar with hit songs like, I’ll be Missing You, and It’s All About the Benjamins, when he came into Diddy’s orbit in October 2022.
But he knew nothing about the musician’s prolific sex life when Jane messaged him via social media – where Harden goes by the handle ‘Unholy Meat Obelisk’ – to ask if he was single.
She proposed that the pair should make love in front of her wealthy husband, without disclosing his identity.
‘I said yes, but I told her it’s my job, I normally get paid for this,’ Harden told DailyMail.com.
He arrived at a swish LA hotel expecting Jane’s partner to be a rich, old sugar daddy whose gorgeous younger babe would do anything to please.
‘I get there and Diddy opens the door and says, come on in,’ Harden revealed.
‘I’m a fan of black music and culture so I obviously knew who it was. Honestly, I’m thinking at this point, am I on an episode of Punk’d?’
The room was bathed in red light, the bed covered in towels, and a camera phone was attached to a tripod.
The two men smoked a blunt, sipped DeLeon tequila and made small talk before Jane emerged from the bathroom wearing just a robe.
‘It was almost like being on an adult film set,’ Harden said.
‘Diddy would tell you where to stand, at which angle, what to do. Go slower, go faster, oral or intercourse.
‘He would direct her to apply the baby oil on herself or on me. Everything was very orchestrated by him. It was his show.’
Harden hadn’t been booked for his boyish good looks or acting talent.
He’s renowned in the porn industry for having an extraordinarily large manhood that he claims is nearly 12 inches long.
‘I was there for my penis. That’s what I’m known for. She called him daddy and I was her gift, or something like that,’ Harden said.
‘He wanted you to exaggerate. He directed it like it was his own homemade porno.’
A steady supply of weed, cocaine, and ketamine was on hand throughout the wild encounter, according to Harden.
Diddy would sometimes join in, take turns or sub in while the ‘talent’ took a break.
He seemed to be aroused by Harden’s size but there was ‘never any gay stuff,’ according to the adult entertainer, who claims to have bedded 500 women and made a million dollars from porn.
That was the first of 10 or so sessions Jane and Diddy booked with him prior to the producer’s arrest on September 16, 2024.
He would pocket up to $7,000 each time in bundles of bills – but had to work hard for his money.
‘Actually, it was performance based,’ he explained. ‘How long the night goes, how many times I would climax, how good he thought it was.’
The couple required him to wear figure-hugging PSD boxers which are popular with hip-hop stars and professional athletes.
‘Sometimes they would say we’re done and tell me to go home and literally as I’m pulling into my driveway they’d be calling and asking me to come back,’ Harden added.
The alleged arrangement eventually unraveled over what appeared to be a simple misunderstanding over payment.
Harden said he was summoned to Jane’s home in June 2024 where she performed oral sex on him as Diddy watched.
Afterwards she put $4,000 in a package and dispatched it to his home via Uber.
When Harden contacted Jane to verify how much money he’d been sent, Diddy rang back and accused him of upsetting her.
It was a year later when he read Jane’s court testimony and realized exactly what he had stumbled into that day.
Jane told United States v. Combs that the rapper had choked, slapped, and punched her during a brutal fight prior to Harden’s arrival.
Diddy had also read her texts to Harden and spotted something he didn’t like.
Months earlier the pair had innocently bumped into one another at a Las Vegas party hosted by another big-name rapper and had exchanged messages about it afterwards.
Jealous Diddy knew nothing about the event and angrily accused Jane of attending another man’s ‘freak off.’
But he didn’t cancel the evening’s entertainment: he ordered Jane to apply makeup and arrange her hair to hide the ‘golf ball shaped’ welts on her forehead, it’s alleged.
‘If I had known about the violence I would have turned around and left the minute I got there,’ Harden told DailyMail.com.
‘But Jane was very inviting, she was all hugs and smiles, she made me a smoothie. I didn’t notice any bruising or damage to her apartment, honestly.’
By then Diddy was facing a barrage of civil lawsuits alleging physical abuse, rape, and sexual assault on victims including Cassandra Ventura, another ex-girlfriend.
He was also the subject of jeering internet memes suggesting he was gay or bisexual.
‘Diddy was going off about that. He didn’t like people saying that he was gay,’ recalled Harden.
‘I had heard a little about the Cassie stuff but wasn’t really aware of the details. His love life was none of my business, I was there to do a job.’
Diddy’s ongoing trial was to yield more sobering surprises for Harden, who gave up his dream of becoming a software engineer to get into porn four years ago.
Jane told the court that during one ‘freak off’ Harden was the last of three male escorts she had allegedly been forced to sleep with.
She was in the bathroom when he arrived because she had been throwing up and felt ‘absolutely terrible,’ the trial heard.
Jane had also texted Diddy numerous times during their three-year relationship begging him to stop using her as a sexual plaything.
‘I don’t want to be used and locked in a room to fulfill your fantasies,’ she wrote in one message.
‘I’m not a porn star. I’m not an animal,’ she pleaded in another.
Harden was contacted by federal agents in March and asked to present his laptop and phone for examination.
He was told he might be subpoenaed to give evidence but neither prosecutors, nor defense lawyers, followed up.
‘I was like, f**k, I’m kind of an accomplice to a crime,’ said Harden, who bitterly regrets ever getting involved with Diddy.
‘There was one part in the court documents where Jane said I came over and afterwards she felt disgusted.
‘I’m not here to make anyone feel that way. I feel disgusted in myself just reading that.’
Diddy has pleaded not guilty to racketeering, two counts of sexual trafficking by force, fraud or coercion and two counts of transportation to engage in prostitution.
He faces a possible life sentence if convicted.
‘I’m not the judge. I don’t know anything about the racketeering side of things’, added Harden.
‘But hitting and manipulating women, if he’s guilty of that, is f****d up. I’m embarrassed to say that I was the third party in that situation.’
