The average Brit spends 9 HOURS per week on small talk, study reveals

A study has confirmed that the stereotype really does hold true – Brits love small talk. 

New research shows that the average Brits spends a whopping nine hours per week making meaningless conversation.

Trivial family matters are the most popular topic, followed closely by work–related gossip.

The latest TV show, the weekend’s football result and what you had for dinner last night also appear in the most–discussed list.

And in typical British fashion, 36 minutes per week – the equivalent of 31 hours per year – are spent discussing the weather.

But the survey, carried out by language learning app Preply, also revealed that nearly half of us find idle chat awkward – and would rather have deeper, more meaningful conversations.

‘From polite weather updates at the bus stop to quick chats about weekend plans in the office kitchen, small talk is woven into everyday life in Britain,’ a spokeswoman for Preply said. 

‘While often dismissed as trivial, these short conversations play a key role in social bonding, workplace relationships, and navigating everyday interactions.’

The survey of 1,500 people revealed that the most uncomfortable small talk topics include politics, personal problems and dating or relationships.

Wolverhampton ranks as the UK’s most talkative city, while Leeds, Hull and Cardiff come bottom of the list.

While 63 per cent of Brits agreed it is a necessary social skill, 44 per cent said they wished they were better at it.

A Preply spokeswoman said there are several ways people can improve their chit–chat skills.

‘Start with safe topics,’ she said. ‘Focus on familiar, neutral subjects such as the weather, recent events, or travel experiences. These topics provide an easy way to begin a conversation and help both people feel comfortable.’

Next, she suggests asking open–ended questions that ‘encourage longer responses and help conversations flow more naturally’.

Practicing ‘active listening’ can also help, she explained.

‘Show genuine interest in what the other person is saying,’ she explained. ‘Respond to their ideas rather than thinking about what you will say next.’

Looking for common ground like shared experiences, interests, or opinions can help create connections and allow conversations to move smoothly between topics.

And finally, practice makes perfect, she said.

‘Use everyday interactions – at work, in cafés, or with neighbours – to build confidence and make casual conversations feel more natural over time,’ she concluded.

The study went on to reveal that 47 per cent of people have used their phone to avoid small talk, rising to 76 per cent among 25–34–year–olds.

Previous research has found that people who talk to unfamiliar individuals as well as friends and family are the happiest.

A team from Harvard University calculated the ‘social portfolio’ of more than 50,000 people from eight countries.

Analysis showed those who interacted with a wider range of people reported greater wellbeing, life satisfaction and quality of life.

Speaking to a broader range of people was more important for wellbeing than the time spent on each interaction, or the total number of interactions, they found.

Meanwhile, a separate study revealed that it takes just four minutes for your key personality traits to shine through during menial conversations.

Researchers from the University of Warwick had participants chat to strangers online for just four minutes, and found they quickly developed a sense of their partner’s personality.

‘In a laboratory setting, after only 4–minutes of ‘small talk’, subjects developed a sense of the personality of their partners, particularly extraversion, which consequently changed their behaviour in future interactions,’ the researchers said.

‘Our work highlights the importance of regular ‘small talk’ communication, even when it doesn’t seem relevant or important,’